The best gifts don’t come in a box.

The holidays are here, and honestly, it’s easy to get lost in the chaos of shopping, parties, and endless to-do lists. But what if we could make this season feel different? What if we gave gifts that weren’t wrapped in paper or tied with ribbons—but ones that actually matter?

This year, I’m all about giving the kinds of gifts that don’t come with a price tag. 🏷️

Here’s how you can give meaningful gifts this season:

1. GIVE THE GIFT of Saying “No”

We’ve all been there—overcommitting to events, saying yes when we really mean no, and burning ourselves out trying to please everyone. This year, don’t be afraid of giving yourself the gift of saying “no” to things that drain your energy. When you say 'no,' you're giving yourself the same kindness and understanding you often offer to others. And by doing so, you're actually honoring everyone, because showing up half-heartedly doesn’t serve anyone. Saying “no” is saying “yes” to the right opportunities.

💡 Try this:
Take a step back and ask yourself: What do you need to say 'no' to this holiday season? Is it a commitment that drains your energy? Or maybe it’s the temptation to overeat or overdrink to please others? For every item you are saying ‘no’ to, write down a “counter-opportunity” that you are saying ‘yes’ to instead. This is your chance to recommit to yourself and make choices that align with your truth and well-being.

2. LET your inner child FREE.

Remember when the holidays were all about fun, laughter, wonder and unadulterated joy? It’s time to bring that back. Whether it’s going on a Christmas movie marathon, writing letters to Santa or the Santas in your life, dancing around to your favorite holiday songs or playing in the snow, reconnecting with that childlike wonder is a gift you can give yourself—and others.

💡 Your Challenge:
Move. Dance. Play. Do something that makes you laugh. Share a moment of joy on social media with #HeyNadia and #MindfulGiving.

3. SHARE YOUR Skill or Talent.

Sharing your talents with others is a gift that goes beyond material value. It fosters connection and creates memorable experiences. Put out a mini concert for your family’s entertainment. Gather everyone for an animated story-telling or a standup comedy routine for free. Bake your best pie, or share your beloved recipe with your siblings. Help your mom get glammed up for dinner without charge. When you share something you’re passionate about, it’s not only a gift to them but also a way to celebrate your own skills and abilities.

💡 Your Challenge:
Are you a great baker? A tech whiz? Or maybe you’ve got a knack for photography? Offering to teach them something new is a thoughtful, meaningful gift that goes beyond anything you could find on a store shelf.

4. DONATE in Someone’s Name

Giving back in someone’s name is a meaningful way to honor their values and make a positive impact. It’s a gift that has the potential to create lasting change, whether by supporting a cause they care about or helping someone in need. It’s a reminder that the holidays are not just about receiving but about making the world a better place.

💡 Try this:
Give back this season by making a contribution to a cause that’s close to someone’s heart. Whether it’s a local charity, environmental cause, or animal rescue, a donation in their name is a gift that keeps on giving.

5. BE Present.

In a world filled with distractions, giving someone your undivided attention is a rare and invaluable gift. It shows that you value them enough to be fully present, which fosters deeper connections and makes them feel truly seen and heard. Being present is about quality, not quantity, and it can create lasting memories.

💡 Your Challenge:
Sometimes, the best gift is just showing up. Put down your phone, willingly step away from distractions, and be fully present with the people you care about. It’s not about the perfect gift, it’s about nurturing your connections and making this moment memorable for the years to come.

What’s the Best Gift You’ve Ever Received?

The holidays don’t have to be perfect. They don’t have to be filled with presents or Instagrammable moments. What matters is the love, the joy, and the memories we create along the way.

So let’s give the gifts that truly matter this year—time, play, gratitude, and connection. I promise, those are the ones that will stay with you long after the decorations come down.

This season, I want to hear from YOU: What’s the best non-material gift you’ve ever received or given?

Tag me on Instagram @nadiamurdock and use #HeyNadia #MindfulGiving to share your story. Let’s inspire each other to give more this year and beyond this season. How about a coffee chat? ☕

A Different Kind of Gift Guide 😏🎁